Dottie Laing passed away this evening, September 5, 2009, about 6:40 p.m. just before sunset. Dottie was married to former IFGE Executive Director Alison Laing for over 50 years.

Dottie worked tirelessly on behalf of the transgender community even though she was not transgender. She held many leadership roles such as Director of Fantasia Fair, and Fund Raising Chair for IFGE, as well as leading workshops and special Significant Others activities at conferences.

Dottie's work was recognized by numerous awards from the transgender community including IFGE's Trinity and Virginia Prince awards, in addition to the Fantasia Fair Award of Merit.


Dottie left this parting message for her friends and loved ones.

Celebration of Life


Celebrate my life!

Please do not be sad.

Remember me in fondness.

I have enjoyed my life, and
treasure my family and friends.

I am proud of my loved ones,
and feel content knowing
that a part of me lives on
in each of them.

I will always be there
each time you smile
thinking of the good times
we have shared.

It’s been a great life!

- Dottie