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MY HUSBAND WEARS MY CLOTHES
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My Husband Wears My Clothes
by Peggy Rudd, Ed. D
PM Publishers (1990)
134 pages. softcover - ISBN-10: 0-9626762-5-X ISBN-13: 978-0962676253


From the Introduction

For nine years I have been married to a crossdresser, a man who enjoys wearing women's clothing. In the case of my husband it is frequently my clothing that is worn. Does that seem strange to you? I must admit that it was difficult for me to comprehend this most unusual practice. There was a time when I wished that some morning I would wake up and the whole crossdressing situation would be gone forever.

Today the expression, "Clothes don't make the man," has a new meaning for us. My husband is as loveable in my clothes as in his. In fact he seems to be a more complete person when the feminine side of his personality is openly expressed by wearing feminine clothes. For me acceptance and understanding have been accomplished by reading, interacting with others who crossdress, and being sensitive to my husband and his needs. . . .

In writing this book I am not exalting or advocating crossdressing. My purpose is to help eliminate many of the misconceptions. Society has been repressive. This is because people do not understand the true feelings and behavioral patterns of crossdressers. What people do not understand, they tend to fear, and fear breeds prejudice. As the reader grows in awareness my hope is that tolerance and understanding will grow proportionately. I do not expect readers to accept all of my thoughts and theories, but I do hope that this subject can be approached with an open mind.

Contents

  • THE CROSSDRESSER AND HIS PARENTS
    Questions Asked by Parents of Crossdressers / How Can Parents Help? / The Best 'Treatment' For Crossdressers / Research on Crossdressing / The Age of Humanness
  • IMPROVING THE MARRIAGE
    Be Honest About Crossdressing / Be Patient / Help Around the House / Be Best Friends With Your Wife / Don't Forget the Husband and Wife Relationship / Help the Wife Accept Crossdressing / What Happens if She Doesn't Accept? / What is the Ultimate Goal?
  • THE CROSSDRESSER AND HIS CHILDREN
    Maternal Instincts and the Crossdresser / My Advice to the Children of Crossdressers / My Advice to Crossdressers / Case Studies / Self Affirmation / Helping the Family Win / Winners / Losers / Things Losers Tell Themselves
  • THE EFFECTS OF SUPPRESSED FEMININITY
    Breaking Away From Macho / Fusing the Gender Roles / The Love of Femininity / Why Do Men Become Crossdressers? / The Need to Experience Beauty and Acquire Virtue / The Need for Personality Expression / Relief from the Requirements of Masculinity / Relief from Being What Others Expect / Why Do Some Men Suppress Crossdressing?
  • GETTING PROFESSIONAL HELP
    What are the Options? / What are the Causes? / What Crossdressers Should Understand / The Last Secret
  • LEARNING TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND ENFEMME
    Deal with your Emotions First / Help Him Feel Normal / Help Him Feel Successful as a Man / Help Him Crystalize the Feminine Side of the Personality / Love Him
  • HELP FROM ORGANIZATIONS
    Why Wives are Afraid to Join / Some Farewell Thoughts From Betty / United We Stand

About the Author

Peggy J. Rudd, Ed.D received her Doctoral Degree from the University of Houston in Cultural Studies and Psychology. She has written four books on the ever emerging topic of men and women who cross gender lines. She serves on the Board of Directors of Tri-Ess (the international organization of crossdressers and their significant others), and is the Director of the Spouses and Partners International Conference for Education (SPICE). She has conducted numerous workshops and seminars on the topic of transgendered relationships and has received many honors including the International Foundation for Gender Education Trinity Award and the Tri-Ess Leader Servant Award.

From the Publisher

My Husband Wears My Clothes, now in its second edition and seventh printing, has become the number one book on the unique topic of crossdressing and transgendered relationships. The author, Dr. Peggy Rudd, describes both the positives and many of the concerns and problems faced by wives and partners of crossdressers and transgendered individuals and suggests solutions. This book is a "must read" for anyone in a transgendered relationship or anyone interested in the phenomenon of men and women who cross gender lines. This book is frequenlty the first book to be read when a spouse or partner discovers that her/his partner is a crossdresser. Yes, there are many women who are crossdressers!

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